Decisions, Decisions!

Sometimes I am indecisive because, although I intuitively know what is right for me in a given situation, I want validation from others.  It seems I would have outgrown this by now, as I am forty-eight years old.  (I’m still working on it.)

A friend spoke with me today about “getting behind a decision,” and I thought about how empowering that would be.  So I decided I was going to trust myself, hold onto my convictions, and let go of the need for anyone to validate me.  Ironically, throughout the course of the day, I had several people give me unsolicited validation, confirming what I had already decided was true.

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